Helping you find sexual autonomy and liberation through self-love & discovery.

Sex & Kink Doula

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    Kink & BDSM

    Interested in BDSM? Fetish on your mind? Kink and power exchange relationships are thrilling and captivating. While easy to get lost in the sauce, it’s important to question our desires, and seek education.

    We’ll explore what piques your interest, tickles your trauma, how to negotiate with others, and more!

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    Intimacy

    Are you struggling to connect, with yourself or others? Intimacy comes in many forms beyond the conventional ways we’re used to; physical, emotional, sexual, and sensual.

    Let’s dive into what makes you feel connected, brings you pleasure, and turns you on. Exploring areas of curiosity and noting those of discomfort.

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    Self-Love

    Many of us struggle to find time for our pleasure, and when we do, it sometime feels more like a chore. Let’s explore prioritizing your pleasure in ways you can look forward to.

    Sharing tips and tricks for self-love and care; pleasure practices and rituals. Deep diving into what makes you, you, and empowering who you are.

  • STI Support

    STI diagnoses can carry a lot of shame, stigma, and grief. Many people struggle to connect intimately with themselves and/or their partners after learning they’ve contracted an STI.

    Together we will work to overcome shame and guilt, and reconnect you with who you are and the pleasure you’re entitled to.

1:1 Sessions

My 1:1 sessions are for folks seeking exploration, expansion, and embodiment of their desires, autonomy, and liberation.

Why Doula for Sex & Kink?

The term Doula traditionally refers to an individual who specializes in the support, advocacy, and education of pregnant people. Doula originates from a Greek word, meaning “woman who serves”. As a service oriented person myself, in both my personal and kink life, it made sense to use the term Doula, as support, advocacy, and education are foundational to areas of my practice. When working with folks in areas of sex, kink and intimacy, this role looks no different.

As your Sex & Kink Doula, I am here to listen to your desires, curiosities, and/or hesitations, advocate for and with you to get your needs met, and provide resources and hands-on tools to aid in your education. My goal here, like any other aspect of my Doula work, is to make sure the people I work with feel safe, encouraged, and respected in their journeys.

  • “There is no way to repress pleasure and expect liberation, satisfaction, or joy.”

    ― Adrienne Maree Brown, Pleasure Activism